SINGAPORE — These days, cruises are hugely popular as holiday options, especially with the wide variety of itineraries, more exotic locations, great amenities and offering a relaxing time where you could bob leisurely along until you reach your destination. Except when you encounter the horde of gluttons at the dinner buffet who look like they’ve never seen food, or annoying neighbours who slam their cabin doors. Be sure you’re not guilty of being one of them. SERENE LIM

1. Don’t think you’re on private island

As luxurious as your cabin is, remember that the space is shared the moment you step out. Be mindful of your noise volume along corridors especially late at night or early in the morning (someone might be sleeping!) and wait for your turn when it comes to shared facilities and activities. While you’re waiting, fellow travellers who’re feeling relaxed don’t need to hear you whine and complain. And try not to hog chaise loungers by “chope-ing” them for much later. Everyone’s in the same boat, literally.

2. Don’t Dismiss the rules

As safe as cruising is, don’t for a minute think accidents never happen. Pay attention to the rules of disembarkation and customs, and follow instructions. Try to listen to the lifeboat safety drill just in case. And on that note, return to the ship on time.

3. Don’t treat the cruise ship as your baby sitter

Unless your kids are in a designated children programme, watch over them and what they do. Don’t leave them unsupervised in pools or other public areas — not only is it dangerous, the cruise attendants are not your personal nannies while you go to the jackpot room. Being squirted with a water gun or finding an ice cream cone in the jacuzzi isn’t cute. You can minimise distracted children by choosing the right ship or itinerary for your family and laying down the law.